I talked to a wise, wise person yesterday while I was home with a sick, teething toddler. His advice was:
Don’t be a Martyr
Another goal to work towards. Suppressing the horrid Piscean tendency towards this is going to be rough. Can you be strong without being angry? Peaceful without being complacent? Spiritual without being Ignorant? Dedicated without being a martyr?
I hope I can find the answers to these questions.